Ken Page, the author of Urbasm: Most dating experts have “techniques” to attract women.
We’re talking about finding a woman who satisfies all your needs from the intellectual on down to your sexual.
I'm very familiar with Ok Cupid and I know a lot of success stories.
From a former boss who met her husband, to coworkers who met their fiancé and soon-to-be fiancé, and to my very own best friend who met her long-term boyfriend on the site. This one time, a close friend of mine went on a date with a guy who after one date broke it off because she wasn't a dog person. Ok Cupid is like any other online dating Web site, except it's free.
If you are a guy looking to score a lot, those seduction skills might help you.
Us men are all about the hunt; meeting women and getting the biggest bang for our efforts. The thing is; if the seduction is done naturally or organically, that is a great thing.
You challenge these in your book by saying that looks, games, and playing hard to get are actually anti-productive. Ken Page: If you look at a lot of the top best selling books and a lot of the dating advice for men—it is all about seduction.
In other words, I’m looking for the real thing, but I am going to have fun while I wait. If it someone you know is only going to be a sexual fling—fine.
But if it is someone you feel you might be interested in, stop playing both sides of the fence ASAP.