Tricking is when a man spends ridiculous amounts of money on a woman that isn’t his girlfriend.
It’s something like courting only his end goal is probably not a relationship.
When I ask Davies why he chooses ghosting over honesty, he replies: "I’m scared of awkward situations. By ignoring them you can end it without any bother." Davies says he has never bumped into someone he has ghosted.
As you may expect, dating is a little bit different in China than it is in most Western countries.
There’s a lot of societal pressure on what’s considered normal in the dating and marriage world, so we decided to conduct a survey to find out what’s really going on.
We surveyed a random sample of 2,072 females in the United States aged 18 to 45 over a course of three weeks to see how long they dated their partners before they got engaged.
(1) Willfully takes or attempts to take any immoral, improper, orindecent liberties with any child of either sex who is at least threeyears younger than the defendant for the purpose of arousing orgratifying sexual desire; or (2) Willfully commits or attempts to commit any lewd or lascivious actupon or with the body or any part or member of the body of any child ofeither sex who is at least three years younger than the defendant for thepurpose of arousing or gratifying sexual desire.
The men with money don’t care and don’t consider it as tricking because they have it to spend.
More so than Westerners, many Chinese view dating as a pragmatic affair.
It’s not always about finding love so much as it is about finding a potential marriage partner who fits with one’s own ideals.
But trust he’s not tricking because you’re so pretty or you cook so well or you’re so smart and he just wants to spend all his money on you. Depending on how much he’s spent the price tag for what he wants may be mighty high.
We are constantly reminded of the pressures of getting married, settling down and starting a family.