Take this test to determine whether you are passive, aggressive, passive-aggressive or assertive. Section A:__I feel anxious, ignored, helpless, manipulated, angry at myself and/or others.__Other people see me as a pushover and that I don’t know what I want or how I stand on an issue.__If I get my own way, it is by chance.__I am inhibited.__I allow others to choose and make decisions for me.__I am emotionally dishonest.__Others feel guilty or superior and frustrated with me.__I am indirect and deny myself.__My underlying belief is that I should never make someone uncomfortable or displeased except myself.__The outcome is that others achieve their goals at my expense. Section B:__I feel confused, unclear on how to feel, I'm angry but not sure why.
There are four types of communication styles: passive, aggressive, passive-aggressive, and assertive. Later I sometimes feel guilty.__I manipulate others to choose my way.__If I don’t get my way I'll make snide comments or pout and be the victim.__Other people view me in an exchange as someone they need to protect themselves from and they fear being manipulated and controlled.__I tend towards indirectness with the air of being direct.__I am self-enhancing but not straight forward about it.__In win-lose situations I will make the opponent look bad or manipulate it so I win.__Others feel confused, frustrated, not sure who you are or what you stand for or what to expect next.__I appear honest but underlying comments confuse the situation.__My underlying belief is that I need to fight to be heard and respected.
My ideal evening is staying in with a movie and my best friend Chardonnay, but we get lonely and it would be lovely for someone to join us.
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Obviously, you’ve posted a Buzz Feed quiz to Facebook recently — you are a human-person with Internet, that’s what we do now. It’s possible you thought this was the “what do you actually belong in” quiz (it is not). For a second date, you have dinner at a mid-range Italian restaurant and order spaghetti, and there is nothing wrong with that. Generally, people underestimate you, but maybe they wouldn’t if you talked about college less? You generally go for grilled cheese, but the expensive kind. If you like someone, you don’t wait three days to call them back, because that’s stupid.
You enjoyed your childhood, and you’re not sorry about it.
You are quirky, but you’re not as weird as you think you are.
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